Sometimes we want and answer from someone or a situation. The reality is that silence or no answer is the answer. If you want to know where you stand with someone and they take a whole semester to anwser that was their answer. You don’t always need words. Body language speaks a lot..it actually speaks louder than words. Here’s an example, a long time ago I use to date this guy he wasn’t treating me bad but I noticed when we would take pictures there was distance between us. His body was away from me. I remember reading in a Cosmo magazines an article about body language and what to look for. Soon after we took pictures. This was before the whole cell phone camara explosion came into the scene. It was back in the day when you developed pictures. Well sure enough soon after we broke up. Two weeks later he had some chick living with him. Boy that was fast!!! The picture did not lie. He had checked out emotionaly. Of course later on he begged me back..but I just couldn’t go there. Romantic love and friendships are a two way street. One will always give a little bit more but the balance should not have to be that extreme. If you have to ask he or she if they like you and they don’t have the audacity to respond in a reasonable amount of time keep keep steppin. Their lack of response is the answer you need. Don’t call, don’t beg, don’t chase. We are adults. Either they will wake up and figure what they lost or they did you the biggest favor for the next better one to fill in the space. In the meantime continue to self improve your inner beauty and go shopping, spoil yourself to some fabulous clothes!

Listen to the silence. That is your answer right there.