Or quietly walking away. I’ve had to cut two friends off this year. No relationship is pefect there is going to be ups and downs but when your getting your hair extensions pulled out your head, being dragged on the ground while you foot is still stuck in the car, you loose your home,  your family hates the guy, he sleeps around and you keep going back for more abuse your not a victim to me. There is a lot of debate on this. I can speak on it freely because I lived it. It only took my ex husband to lay his hands on me twice..there was no way in the world I was going to stay in a relationship where I’m getting beat. I dont like getting hit. If you are sleeping in your bed and your boyfriend breaks into your home and he starts hitting you then your a victim. If there is a restraining order on you and you are still  meeting up with him and he gives you a black eye again you are just plain dumb. When your family and friends try to reason with you till they are black and blue, when your church friends try to help you see the light and you keep going back for more abuse your on your own. There are victims and then there are some who were dropped on the head as a baby. I can maybe understand you getting beat because your spouse is the bread winner and you depend on him. I don’t understand you taking care of him, supporting him and you’re getting beat up. Its likes your paying for punches. After loosing my cool listening to these disturbing stories over and over again its best you get your hair done somewhere else.  I have the right to refuse service and the right not deal with insanity. Your craziness makes me want to hit the bottle. It affects me. It makes me cringe me. If you don’t love yourself I find it hard to like you. I need to make money but I don’t have to loose my mind with yours. I can work without having to go home emotionaly disturbed. Seek therapy first before you attempt making your next hair appt with me

I don’t feel ashamed posting this as I have been very vocal with my friends. They know my stance on getting beat. I don’t play that. After trying to help them with no avail I quietly exit the back door. They will know I’m done with them when their calls goes straight to voice message the next 6 months. I need a mental break.

#ventfest.