If you are not to sure about someone you are interested in just observe their Facebook activity for a few days. A person can only hide who they are for so long. I was getting to a know a person a few years back .  He came on strong had his kids write me letters claimed himself to be holier the tho.  You know us women we have that sixth sense Spider Man sense thing going on. I wake up one night and one of our mutual friend had posted pictures of herself in lingerie in the middle of the night. There was Big Head country boy slobbering all over her pictures. I asked him about it and you know what he said the typical answer “Oh we are just friends.” About three months later he got caught by a harem of women who started to suspect his playboy ways. We  all started messaging each other and found out how he was pimping us all. He was playing the me oh my I’m a single dad story.  He has seven kids by three different women. His two oldest children want nothing to do with him they believe he killed their sick mother. He ended up marrying one of the girls on his fb friends list. She has two boys and got pregnant and had a baby with him. They now have seven kids and teenagers living together supposedly happily ever after like the Brady Bunch family. Ummm I think not .  She use to throw jabs at me on her wall and say that he picked her over me because she wasn’t easy. Excuse me,  I never kissed the man. They live somewhere in Texas in a tiny town now. She’s from Chicago their kid must be 4 years old by now. I’m glad she married him. I dodged a bullet. Better her than me. I don’t want to be married to a man who’s ex in-laws accuse him of poisoning his first wife. Hold up  this story is not over. I spoke to one of his victims on the phone for like 5 hours one day and she told me she was dating him and that she found it odd and strange that he would call her upset because he couldn’t get a hold of her daughter. She had a beautiful daughter very exotic looking she is half black and white….things never added up with him. I would catch him in little lies. …I’m sure his new wifey doesn’t know how he was lusting a teen girl when he was courting her…listen ladies and gentlemen listen  to your gut  if something doesn’t  feel right it’s because it’s not. Don’t settle out of loneliness, pray in specific details about what it is that you are  looking for in a person. Write what you want and stick to it, it’s ok  if they don’t  match your perfect list,  2 or 3 things can be off..you are not going to find the perfect person but at least  you know what you can and can’t tolerate on your list.